Today I just want you to know this….
You are seen.
You are heard.
You are so loved.
You are a warrior.
You are courageous.
You are a badass.
I want you to know that I know you are doing the very best you can. I want you to know that I know the decisions you make are always in the best interest of you and your children.
I see you.
I hear you.
I love you.
I’m so over mothers judging and knocking and criticising other mothers. Enough is enough.
We may not agree on all the decisions for our child but I know one thing we can likely agree on, we want the best for our kids and we love them madly.
I once had a mentor that said, “you know Malaine lots of people drink coffee but the way they drink coffee is different. Some like if black while others prefer milk and sugar, some get lattes and some use almond milk but at the end of the day they just drink coffee.”
I love that analogy because it reminds me, we all are different, same intention, different ways of performing it.
So before you go and knock another mother for how she does things ask yourself this…..
“Am I judging her and if so why? If I loved and accepted her would I be passing judgement?”